To be blunt, dating in this day can be a total mind fuck. We have “Rules”, “Games”, not speaking our thoughts or showing our real feelings. With all the dating apps and looking for someone in bars, it’s really easy to find someone to sleep with, but not to be in a relationship with. Then … More Learning to Date again.
Learning to live alone was one of the most rewarding things I have ever done in my life. I moved into an apartment with my then partner, It didn’t work out and next thing I found myself living alone totally unprepared for what lay before me. My relationship was not a healthy one, infact it … More Learning to live alone.
Do you ever sit alone in your bedroom and just cry.. Sometimes it is at night when you are alone, sometimes it’s in the morning when you need to cry and get the hurt out before you can slap on your happy face and show a mask to the world.. All my life I have worn … More “I’m okay” The lie everyone tells.
I am meeting new people and learning a lot about the type of people I want to have in my life. It’s not surprising that I am meeting individuals who are extremely career driven, as stepping out into the world on my own is my most recent big step. They are showing me everything I … More How to Attract the right people into your life.
You know me by now, honest to a default. I have no idea if this post is going to help anyone. I feel it is more of a post that may help me move on and may allow you the reader to feel less alone but there will not be pearls of wisdom everywhere. From … More Being Bullied Growing Up.
Walking home from the gym yesterday I found myself really “rocking out” to music. Mouthing the words, making faces and doing little air guitar moves. I was really in the zone, enjoying that moment in time. For a second I stopped and said to myself, “people will think I am nuts if I don’t stop this”. … More Have you met yourself yet?
Most people want to help their friends any way they can. Some people like myself are Mother Hens and we want to protect those we care for. The thing is, that isn’t always possible. Hindsight (the understanding of a situation or event only after it has happened or developed) can be a funny old thing. … More When you can’t help the people you care for.