To be blunt, dating in this day can be a total mind fuck. We have “Rules”, “Games”, not speaking our thoughts or showing our real feelings. With all the dating apps and looking for someone in bars, it’s really easy to find someone to sleep with, but not to be in a relationship with. Then … More Learning to Date again.
My earliest memory is of leaving church with my Mother. Mass was FINALLY over and I was dragging my poor Mother as fast as my two little legs could carry me to our local store to buy penny sweets and whatever toy or comic book I could sweet talk her into getting me. Most of … More Childhood Innocence.
Do you ever sit alone in your bedroom and just cry.. Sometimes it is at night when you are alone, sometimes it’s in the morning when you need to cry and get the hurt out before you can slap on your happy face and show a mask to the world.. All my life I have worn … More “I’m okay” The lie everyone tells.
You know me by now, honest to a default. I have no idea if this post is going to help anyone. I feel it is more of a post that may help me move on and may allow you the reader to feel less alone but there will not be pearls of wisdom everywhere. From … More Being Bullied Growing Up.
Walking home from the gym yesterday I found myself really “rocking out” to music. Mouthing the words, making faces and doing little air guitar moves. I was really in the zone, enjoying that moment in time. For a second I stopped and said to myself, “people will think I am nuts if I don’t stop this”. … More Have you met yourself yet?
Every one of us at some stage in our life has messed up. We have hurt and been hurt by someone we deeply care for. A family member, a friend, an ex-partner, maybe even all three, maybe even more than once. It only makes us human. We are all flawed and to think otherwise is … More Forgiveness verses Acceptance.